you have many controls to send auto mail like CDONTS and CDO. i am going to tell you the CDO method because of relaiblity.
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Set myMail=CreateObject("CDO.Message")
myMail.Subject=" Subject Here "
myMail.From=" Email address of sender "
myMail.To=" Email address of reciver "
myMail.HTMLBody=" Mail Body Text "
myMail.Send
Set myMail=Nothing
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Obj.dbMail = "From | To | SQLto| DSNto | Cc | Bcc | Subject | Body | Encoding | Format | priority | Base | Loc | attach | NameValue | SMTPserver | BatchSize | IgnoreError | Visual | TestRun | Lapse| trigger"
Beside the standard parameters, ASP-db streamline and applies email to other operations like "Edit Add, DB mass mail etc..." such that it becomes automatic.